Am wondering where to begin my post from.Too many updates to share.
First lets begin with not so unhealthy one…wait dont worry ,I was just diagnosed with ‘Post nasal drip’ which when I informed my hubby,he heard it as ‘Post mortem’ 🙂
I Was put on antibiotics and decongestion tablets and am fine now.Hence I was absconding from blog world.
Now the second update and the most important one.I have resigned from my job and after serving notice period of 2 months my last day was on Friday the 20th of April.
I would be joining my new company early next month.Till then am enjoying my summer vacation 🙂
To make best use of my free time I have started my morning walk and admiring the nature.The trees are all laden with red,yellow and purple flowers,the nature at its best.The fresh morning air and beautiful flowers makes my morning just perfect.
Also this month I will be celebrating my 1st wedding anniversary and hubby dear decided to make it special by celebrating it in Kerela 🙂
This anniversary we also brought samsung Full HD LCD TV and hold your breath a diamong ring from Tanishq (latter one gifted by my mil).
Too much happening this side…hope to get back to blogging in full swing now 🙂
Till then stay happy and healthy..Take care everyone 🙂
We come across several people in our life. Some stay for a while and then move out .Some stay with us but the moment either of us shift places it becomes a ‘out of sight,out of mind’ phase. Some stay with us only if they think we can be of some use to them.
But then there is one more category which in true sense are BFF.
People usually say make friends from same class(financial) and state ( caste) so that its easy to understand one another.
I was campus recruited and so when I first came to Bangalore I was surrounded by friends from my place itself.
After 2 months of training we were put into different projects and that’s when I got paranoid of leaving my friends behind and mixing up with new people who were not from my place with different cultural backgrounds ,different eating habits ,in short poles apart.
In my new project there were 3 more girls besides me. One of them konkani,other telegite and third one a kannadiga from Mangalore. I took some time to mix up with them. But then soon all of us became thick pals.
After a year or so I changed my project and was again midst of new people with a girl from Orissa. Again I made friendship with this girl but when I moved out of the organization we lost all the contact.
As of now I have kinda lost the contact with all my friends from my hometown who joined the company with me and also the people with whom I have worked with.
But there is only this girl from Mangalore (DS)with whom I am in touch with even now. She is not from my place ,different states ,culture in short not similar in any way except that she can speak Hindi 🙂
I remember in 2010 on my birthday we (me and DS) went to Shiva temple near HAL, had dinner and since it was getting late my hubby then my fiance staying in Mumbai requested DS to accompany me to my hostel and to stay with me as he dint want me to be alone on my birthday. And this girl came with me and stayed overnight. It was a big deal for her as she had never spent a night any where other than her own home. I was overwhelmed by her gesture.
She was the one who accompanied us (me and my better half) on our shopping spree for selecting our engagement outfits. She suggested me the shop from where I could buy matching jewelery for my saree and also helped me select one (as I am hopeless in this field).
Even for my wedding preparations she spent a whole day in selecting the best salwar suits for me. She did play a role of a sister and helped me. Only glitch she dint come for my wedding 😦 though I understand it would have been difficult for her to come so far.
And then there was a time when she suddenly disappeared. She would not receive my calls nor would reply to my messages. One day I called her from my hubby’s cellphone and that being an unknown number she picked up but as soon as she heard my voice she disconnected stating that she was busy. I was worried for her but somewhere I was angry too for her weird behavior.
After many days she called me and shared with me the reason which made her cut off with everyone and how she wanted some privacy. I respected her decision and later we met at a mall and had a good time.
We are still in touch with each other though even after inviting her to my place for some million times in a span of one year she has yet not been able to find time to come 🙂
I shamelessly asked her for a birthday treat ( I just wanted to meet her and spent time with her,I know she is feeling lonely,I wanted to be with her on her birthday and to help her as much as I can) when I wished her and it is still pending(DS are you listening, I know you read my blogs :-)) but I know that’s because of not so ‘good time’ that she is facing both professionally and personally hence she is in no mood to meet people. There is a saying in Hindi/Punjabi , “Man changa to sab changa” meaning “If mind is happy is then everything appears happy”.I hope she gets her happiness real soon.
Even today I mailed her to ask where I could get a ready-made blouse for the saree that I want to wear for my upcoming 1st wedding anniversary and she readily helped me 🙂
I sincerely pray to God to grant her wish soon,I so want to see her in her chirpy mood again.
3 cheers to our friendship and may it grow even more deeper as the days pass.
I wish I could do more than writing this post for you DS.
(This post was written last wednesday before but could not post it 😦 But better late than never )
First thing first,its dad’s birthday today so let me wish him a very happy birthday!You are the best dad. May God bless you with all the happiness in the world and good health. Wishing you many more birthdays to come.
Hubby came back on Sunday. I was so excited not because he came but he came all loaded with snacks 😉 After my parents it was he (read my mil) who played a role of santa. My mil has packed with him a bag full of goodies and other stuffs. So let me make you all green with J,the list goes as follows 🙂
1.Besan Barfi made by mil
2.Dry fruits+atta laddoo again made by her
3.Different type of namkeen (store brought)
4.Electric stove lighter
5.Night suits for me
7.My favorite sun dried plump (baer)
8.Dry fruits including again my favorite walnuts
9.Set of 6 cello fridge bottles
10.Jar full of amla pickle.
11.Some of the best quality spices
My parents are going back tomorrow 😦 Its kinda making me feel sad. But I am contend with the quality time I spent with them. We dint really go out anywhere and stayed at home but it was some of the best moment I had. Will cherish it for a long time to come. Thank you mummy papa for coming all the way from Bhopal some 1600 km to stay with me since I was alone for 2 weeks. Things are parents do for us even at this age..God bless all the parents around the world.
ETA:In the evening hubby brought cake ,we made dad cut the cake and later we went out for dinner ‘Gokul veg’ newly opened in RT Nagar.Yesterday when I reached home saw mom struggling with chalki (fried snack) batter.I dont have that equipment with me to make those chaklis.She was trying to make it using plastic bag but when she pressed it the bag burst open.Aah talk about kitchen disaster 🙂 I then went to my owner’s house and borrowed the said chakli making thing and finally we had tasty and crunchy chaklis 🙂